No Food, No Drink, No Belonging

In today’s pro-tip, we’re stepping away from tech to address a more common issue inside the church and telling you what no one else will tell you about No Food and Drink Signs in church.

*Editors note* I really hammered down on the “we want to be good stewards” reason for these signs. But I also understand that there may be other reasons such as reverence towards the service. Whatever your reason, they can still come off as unwelcoming and put a bad taste in people’s mouths…

 

No Food Or Drink Signs Need To Go

A barbecue pit with a fire inside and on top sits a sign that reads no food or drink in the area that is also on fire

Many churches still have signs outside their Sanctuaries that say, “no food or drinks in church.”

In short, these signs are unwelcoming.

We understand why you put these signs up. Either you want to keep your place clean, or you want to be respectful of service inside, maybe a different reason all together… but these reasons are not on the minds of attendees when they are coming into the building.

You have to look beyond what you’re doing into how it makes people feel. I’m not talking about treating everyone like a snowflake… but seriously consider the emotions and feelings that you invoke with what you do.

 

What Kind Of Feeling Does A No Food Or Drink Sign Invoke?

Let’s think of other places where food and drink ARE NOT allowed:

  • The doctor’s office.
  • A classroom.
  • A stiff grandmother who doesn’t allow food or playing on her lush white carpet.

These are all places that are associated with begrudging attendance. They are not places you want to go of your own free will (sorry grandmother).

And how about where food and drinks ARE allowed:

  • Movie theaters.
  • Sports stadiums.
  • And quite possibly your grandmas house (my own grandma kept me fed).

All these are fun and entertaining places that we are eager to visit. We look forward to these events!

So if you say, “you’re welcome to come as you are” but you put rules and limits on what people can bring…well, you just may come off as a happy camper in front a sign that says, “GO AWAY” (much like the thumbnail for this post).

 

Why We Hate No Food Or Drink Signs

lighter setting a no food or drink sign on fire

Created by CTA Insider, Ryan McGill

  1. These signs illicit a feeling of not belonging.
  2. No food or drinks allowed are associated with places we don’t look forward to.
  3. Some people don’t want to go one or two hours without a sip of water…so don’t make them!
  4. It’s more important to let people feel comfortable than to keep your carpet and chairs pristine (plus stained concrete is easier to maintain vs carpet)

 

Conclusion

No food or drink signs are a relic of the past.

They create the illusion that the church is not a place to be yourself. Many have already broken through the mold of “church dress” and now allow anyone to come as they are.

But these signs remain, creating a casual atmosphere that still has rules and limits.

If you want to be a church that “feels like family” and says, “welcome home,” make sure your sanctuary feels that way too.

Bring down your No Food or Drink signs.

Do you still have no food or drink signs hanging up? Let us know in the comments below!

Remember that the ultimate sign for your church is your website. You will get more people finding you online that driving by your church. So while you burn your No Food Or Drink Sign…make sure your website is up to speed.

4 Comments

  1. The church that I attend just begun serving coffee and cookies at the start of the service in the sanctuary. I am not a fan of it. I am 56 years old and honestly I had never ever seen this practice previously. In my humble opinion, the church has allowed the ways of the world to infiltrate its practices. How can we come together in one accord if some are eating cookies and some are drinking coffee while the word of God is coming forth? I am very uncomfortable with this practice but I am not in leadership so I do not make such decisions. I do pray about it at home and I still do not find peace with it. I am of the mindset that we come together to be fed spiritually. I understand having a fellowship meal and coffee after the service but I do not see the purpose of serving coffee and cookies during the service. It creates an atmosphere that resembles a social event instead of a place and time to reverence God.

    • Hey Emerald, thanks for chiming in.

      Just to clarify, you’re saying your church passes coffee and cookies “at the start of the service” or is it available to partake before the service starts?

  2. I partially agree with Heidi and Emerald, as the church I was raised in never had anthing like that, and if anyone had brought coffee into the church they would have gotten stern looks from the elders. There wouldn’t really be a place to put it anyway, except the carpeted floor, where it could accidentally get knocked over. The pews were cushioned, and you wouldn’t be able to set anything there without it being knocked over there, either. On the other hand, there may be some people who come in physically hungry and didn’t have to to eat or anything, and maybe just a bite to eat and some coffee would help them to pay more attention to the sermon and everything.

  3. I disagree. The sanctuary should be reverenced and treated s a Holy special place. No food or drinks goes far behind just worrying about the pews are the carpets getting soiled. in my opinion well yes folks should be excited about going to church church is not a movie or sports event. When our mindset is things have to be done so that everyone will have fun you’re missing out on the point that the prime purpose is to worship and honor our Savior. Every example of the Bible gives about coming before a holy God has always been done with reverence, respect, honor, and discipline.
    If you go to the sports stadium, there are certain roles in common knowledge of how it functions and what to do everyone knows it’s courtesy and respect to not throw your trash down or under the bleachers you properly place it in a trashcan but not everyone does that. There are events that strictly prohibit outside food or drinks coming into their event simply because they want you to buy their food people don’t like it when they have to throw their brand new bag of chips cookies and cokes in the trashcan to enter the event, but they comply and do so.
    So back to the original post I guess you need to ask yourself what’s more important referencing and worshiping a holy God or bringing in your bag of M&Ms and Mountain Dew to munch on during the service.
    BTW I’m in my early 30’s not some old head.

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